What I wish I started sooner.
There was a turning point in my life when I began to live differently. It wasn’t a monumental event, but rather a realization that the way I was living wasn’t bearing the fruit I needed for a fulfilling life. I stepped back from everything and chose to go in a new direction.
The change was gradual. One of the most valuable lessons I’ve learned is that life doesn’t have to be rushed. Too often, we get caught dreaming of the future and miss what’s happening around us. When I decided to embrace a slower pace, I began journaling and savoring the quiet moments. This helped me reflect on how I wanted to move forward, and honestly, I never thought I’d end up where I am today.
Some of the changes I made were simple but significant. I stopped spending all day on the computer. When you start a business, there’s a temptation to work nonstop because the end goal seems so close. But I realized I needed to take care of myself. I started making time for meal prepping, cooking, and baking. Writing daily brought me joy, and I found the space to study theology and dive deep into Bible chapters. I also rediscovered other dreams, like creating 3D fashion, writing, producing, and making animated films, as well as working on small fashion collections. Once you embrace stillness and quiet, the world’s noise begins to fade.
For a long time, everything around me was loud, and I didn’t even realize it. I was moving so fast, accomplishing big milestones, but I wasn’t checking in on myself or my soul. Now, at forty-one, I’m proud of the wisdom I’ve gained and how far I’ve come. While I sometimes wish I had learned these lessons earlier, I’m grateful that God has allowed me to understand them now.
It’s never too late to change the direction of your life. The first step is to start appreciating the quiet moments in your day. Begin the process of letting go of the things we turn to for comfort or distraction. It’s not easy, but the key is to give yourself grace and remember that God designed you to move at your own pace.
